When your partner in life,
whether husband or boyfriend, wife or girlfriend is cheating on you or has cheated on you in
the past, I wouldn’t have any apprehension that the first thing to come into
your mind is to ask why.
Definitely you’re not alone. The
fact is that, this is not an unusual scenario. Many are victims of infidelity
and most of them want to know why their spouse or loved ones’ reason for being
unfaithful and what persuade them to have an illicit affair.
Knowing the reason or reasons on
why your significant other commit such act can help you deal with the
situation. It will become your crucial key to making a wise decision about the
best possible way to deal with the offender’s infidelity.
In case you decide to rectify
with your cheating mate, knowing the reason behind the unfaithful act or
betrayal can give you intuition on how to rebuild your relationship and will
lessen the chances that the sin be enacted again. However, if you decide to
leave your cheating mate, knowing the reason for your significant other’s
deceiving act can ease the healing process, and let you move on without letting
the impediments from your old relationship influence your future affairs in
life.
But let me just say that I am
completely pleased with how you feel. You are justified in your feelings and
are allow to stagger in them for as long as you deem it crucial or necessary.
On the contrary, I would like to suggest that is not the bottomline of anyone’s
life and whoever faces the same agony, still, has a choice in this matter.
Nobody has the right to judge over your thoughts and feelings. It is the one
thing that belongs to you and only you through imperfections. And knowing what
is real, I would like to emphasize on the possibility that you are the only one
responsible for the way you feel for only you have full control over your own
thoughts and feelings. I suggest that you may try to redirect your thoughts and
focus into the ones that are more pleasing to you or rather would ease your
pain. You’ve got to choose, so better start choosing thoughts that would make
you feel good if not completely happy.
We have full control over every
aspect of our lives. Begin to realize the power of your will and start to think
your way with your unrealized self-consciousness and much importantly, your
freedom.
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